We Need to Talk About Dementia

A film about what happens when someone is diagnosed with dementia and has to go to stay in a care home.

In this short film we meet a woman who has moved to a new apartment, after her husband has gone to live in a care home.

She’s having a spare room redecorated. The friendly painter who is doing the work asks her about what’s been happening. She explains how her husband was diagnosed with dementia and they had to sell their house to pay for his care. As the story unfolds, experts provide background information on some of the issues that arise. Don’t have time to watch the whole film? Choose from the video selection below.

Disclaimer: The information on this site is not intended as advice, but as signposting to some of the organisations and bodies that may be able to help you.

Helpful Films

What is dementia section photograph

What is dementia?

Deterioration

Heredity

Psychotropic medication

Keeping Involved

What is an ‘old age’ Psychiatrist?

Stress & Distress

Struggling to cope with dementia

Telling people

What can we do?

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Getting a diagnosis

Reluctance to get tested

Seeing a GP as soon as possible

The memory clinic

Bringing a family member

First visit with the GP

First meeting at the Hospital clinic

Brain scans

Diagnosis — Staying well

Continuing as a patient after diagnosis

In follow-up: Do you need more scans?

Living at home section photograph

Living at home

Home care self-directed support

Hiring help at home

Dementia and visual impairment

Dementia and contrast

Furniture design

Mirrors

Painted doors

Care homes section photograph

Care Homes

Checking with inspectors

Choosing a care home

End of life care

If I had to go into a care home

Sexuality

Specialist care homes

Finance and power of attorney section photograph

Finance & Power of Attorney

Power of Attorney

Financial worries

Self-directed care

Other Projects

The Power of Power of Attorney

A Power of Attorney comes in to play at a point in life that can be challenging for all involved.

Dementia the Radical Agenda

The DSDT has been working in Northern Ireland for ten years, and in this film Professor June Andrews and Mark Butler spend time in Belfast talking about what has happened so far, and what still needs to happen.

Take me with you

This story is largely a tribute to the work of the people who work in and who manage care homes.